tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5012577834296987267.post1913361586235086451..comments2023-09-13T16:28:53.701-07:00Comments on Michaltastik Spewing Out Her Opinions: shidduch crisis = spoiled brat crisisMichaltastikhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06358698308334285154noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5012577834296987267.post-79340096434178202872010-10-10T15:53:15.708-07:002010-10-10T15:53:15.708-07:00Well, there are Charedi who are not Chassidic, as ...Well, there are Charedi who are not Chassidic, as their traditions are rooted with the Vilna Gaon, though Mitnagdim are not as well publicised.<br><br>There is a good argument that kids stay home, because it is comfortable with them. With large families, there is incentive to get the hell out and get some breathing room. I never changed my sister's diaper, and even with more siblings, my mother is such a her-way micro manager, I never would be trusted to do it as she doesn't believe in training, she believes in yelling at someone if they do anything not in complete accord with her way.<br><br>In some of those families the youngest kids are probably still spoiled, though.Thomas Forsythhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00837156392258098698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5012577834296987267.post-29651609241061814182010-10-11T07:38:35.406-07:002010-10-11T07:38:35.406-07:00I agree to a large degree. Over the years I've...I agree to a large degree. Over the years I've dated, not that I've dated oodles of ffbs (prefer BTs but they are hard to find at this age), many were long time working part time (not just due to economy). Guys in their 30s that after YU, never found a full time job. Instead they are working 15-25hours a week and having their parents pay their rent and much of their living expenses. Some of their parents are well into retirement age, but are still working. I don't see why these guys aren't ashamed to take handouts from their older parents.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com